What Type of Fetish Do You Attract?

By: Ian Fortey
Estimated Completion Time
5 min
What Type of Fetish Do You Attract?
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About This Quiz

It's very doubtful anyone in the world could ever make a full list of fetishes—everything that every single person is into would be incredibly long and undoubtedly always incomplete. Some people are more than happy to share their fetishes, some only share them with their most trusted friends and lovers and yet others will probably never tell a soul for as long as they live. That's the nature of the beast. 

There's such a wide variety of kinks and flavors out there, you just need to roll with the punches and either accept your own or try to overcome them if they don't make you happy. But there's another layer to this whole thing and that's all wrapped up in the laws of attraction. After all, you can only control your conscious self. The way you're perceived by others, for instance, may be something you're unable to control. And who knows, you may be putting out a vibe consciously or unconsciously that appeals to the fetishes in others. 

If you're a little curious about what fetish you're attracting and admit it, you are, why not answer a few questions for us and find out just who it is that's finding you just irresistible out there?

When it comes to partying, are you most likely to be the host, the center of attention or a wallflower?
That all depends on the party, I guess.
I'm running the show.
I do like to be noticed.
Maybe a little of everything.

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Do you consider yourself a flirt?
If I'm inspired.
I don't play games like that.
Oh, definitely.
Some people tell me that, but I don't think I am.

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Have you ever met someone in person after only knowing them on the internet and had sex?
No, but I guess I would under the right circumstances.
A number of times.
No, I need to know someone a little better.
Yes, I have.

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Are you fairly open about your own kinks or do you keep those things secret?
I'm pretty open.
Not secret, but separate from the rest of my life.
Some things are more secret than others.
Definitely secret.

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In any given summer, how much time are you going to be spending at the beach?
As much as I can.
I might go, I might not.
I'll go a few times.
Next to none.

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There's nothing wrong with pride in one's appearance. What do you put the most effort into when it comes to how you look?
How I'm dressed.
I look good for myself, not others.
My body.
I'm pretty low maintenance, really.

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You have to get to the 10th floor of an office building. How do you plan on doing that?
I might take the stairs.
Whatever's the most efficient way.
Well, what are my options here?
Elevator, of course.

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What's your go-to look for heading out to the club?
As long as the shoes look good, everything else will fall into place.
I'm not much of a club person.
Something that'll get all eyes on me.
Whatever's cute and comfortable.

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Would you rather spend time with people or with your pets?
Either or.
Who says people can't be pets?
People
Pets by far.

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Do you accept your own fetishes or are you embarrassed by them?
I'm on the fence.
I'm very happy with myself.
No complaints about my fetishes.
I'm a little embarrassed but I still like it.

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Have you ever joined an online group or forum specifically devoted to a fetish you're into?
I've looked through some stuff but nothing serious.
Several.
Not really.
Yes.

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Are your own fetishes the sorts of things that dominate your sex life or do you just want to indulge once in a while?
I'm a little preoccupied.
I prefer to focus on my fetishes. Why wouldn't I?
I don't think I'm into anything that I "have" to do all the time. Once in a while is fine.
Just once in a while.

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Are you more of a homebody or do you like to be out and about?
I'm happy wherever.
I stay at home when I can.
I love being out.
I really prefer to be at home.

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Pick the best shoe!
Stilleto heels
Leather boots
Whatever looks best with what I have on.
Sneakers

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How do you feel about roleplay when it comes to your sex life?
Maybe, if it works for both of us.
I assume that's different from knowing your role.
Not really my thing.
I love it!

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If your partner wanted you to wear a specific outfit in the bedroom, would you indulge them?
I might slip into something simple.
No, they're going to wear what I want.
I'm not sure that's necessary.
Absolutely.

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If you had a week to yourself what do you think you'd end up doing?
I'd love a tropical vacation.
Whatever I want.
Making the most of it out and about.
Just relaxing at home.

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Do your friends and family often come to you for advice?
Only about certain things.
Quite often.
Not particularly.
Sometimes!

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Have you ever sent a dirty pic to someone you barely knew?
That's not my style.
Yes.
Oh, definitely.
I have to know them.

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If your friends tried to hook you up on a blind date, would you go?
Sure, my friends know me pretty well.
My friends would know to never do that.
Sounds fun!
I don't think so.

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Lots of things can be pretty arousing. Where does dancing rank for you?
Dancing is hot for sure.
I'm not particularly into dancing.
Dancing always gets me in the mood.
I'm not much of a dancer.

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Do you keep your home tidy at all times or does it fall into disarray now and then?
It's always immaculate.
I keep things fairly organized.
Well, it's clean when I clean it.
I need a maid.

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Do you consider yourself a handy person when it comes to things like home repairs?
For some small stuff, sure.
I can do whatever I need to do.
Not really.
I can always research what I need to do.

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How do you feel when you know someone is staring at you?
Depends on who's looking and what they're looking at.
I don't need people staring at me.
I like it.
It makes me uncomfortable.

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What do you consider an intimate but non-sexual way to connect with someone?
Foot massage
Back massage
Dancing
Just a hug

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Have you ever gone to bed with someone just to snuggle but not actually have sex?
Once or twice
No
I guess maybe
Of course

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Are you very open to other people's fetishes even if they're not the sort of thing you're into?
That definitely depend on the person and the fetish.
I'm generally very accepting.
As long as it's not too weird.
Yes.

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Should sex be a full body experience or do you just need to focus on the sexy parts?
Different parts are sexy to different people.
You want to make it a full body experience.
Those sexy parts should really be the focus.
I think it's more about the mind than the body.

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Have you ever felt like an outcast?
Rarely.
I assume everyone does at some point.
Not at all.
All the time.

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Has anyone ever judged you for what you're into?
Unfortunately.
I couldn't care less about the judgment of others.
No.
Yes, and it's awful.

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