Can We Guess If You're More Dominant or Submissive in the Bedroom?

By: Kennita Leon
Estimated Completion Time
3 min
Can We Guess If You're More Dominant or Submissive in the Bedroom?
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About This Quiz

A lot of things in this world are black and grey, but even more of them aren't. And one of those things is our behavior in the bedroom. While some of us may be 100% dominant or submissive, some of us don't have it so easy. 

For some, the lines are blurred. Some of us can switch between the two, but for different reasons. Some of us can be submissive or dominant depending on our moods, while the rest of us who don't fit in one particular category can alternate depending on who we're intimate with.

Regardless of who or what determines your dominance or submission, we want to try to guess what you're more of. So, allow us to ask you a few questions; some of them will be pretty naughty (we want to know what you like in the bedroom), while some will just want to find out your little curiosities (like what your favorite kind of shoe is). Indulge us for a while (sorry dominants) - tell us some of your secrets so that we can try to guess whether you like being looked up to or if you're on the floor, on your knees.

We're not here to judge, so just let it all out. How many people have you slept with?
Too many to count
30-50
Less than 10
10-30

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Do your tastes vary or do they stay the same?
They stay the same.
Do I even have a type?
They vary slightly.
They vary a lot.

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Where's the craziest place you've done it?
At work
In my parents' room
At the movie theater
At the beach

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Do you prefer being on top or on the bottom?
Top
I like both.
Bottom
It doesn't matter.

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Handcuffs or a blindfold?
I don't care as long as I do the blindfolding or handcuffing.
I don't mind either.
Handcuffs
Blindfold

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Are you more into being pleasured or administering it?
Being pleasured
Equal
Administering it
Depends on my partner

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Have you ever been humiliated while doing the act?
Never
Once in a while
All the time
A few times

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Are you a fan of pain?
I'm a fan of giving it.
Not really
I am.
Nope

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What's your take on role-playing?
Not a fan
Every now and then, yes
I would try it.
I love it.

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How often do you use toys or props?
Every single time
Not as much as I would like
Often
Never

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Let's simmer down for a sec. What kind of kisses do you love?
I don't kiss.
I don't have a preference.
The light, feathery kind.
The long, passionate ones.

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Is gentle foreplay something you enjoy?
Not in the slightest
Sometimes
Yes!
Not really

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What about slow lovemaking?
Nope, next question...
Yes, I enjoy it.
I've never tried it.
Not often, but yes

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Do you bring food into your bedroom?
Sometimes
All the time
On occasion
Not at all

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Have you ever had more than one other person in your bed?
Many times
A few times
Never
Once

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Are you comfortable talking about your sex life with your friends?
No, it's not their business.
I do it all the time.
I'm not allowed to talk about it.
Certain things, yes

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We need to know about your past. Are you in a relationship right now?
More like a situantionship
I'm not.
Yes, I am.
I think so.

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How did you and your ex meet?
Online
We bumped into each other.
At a social event
We were introduced.

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How long were things good for with your ex?
A year
Six months
Three months
A month

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Were you very vocal during your disagreements?
I was extremely vocal.
I think I gave as much as I got.
I was silent.
I rarely spoke up.

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What did you guys argue the most about?
How unavailable I seemed
Who cares?
How badly I was treated
I don't remember.

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Why did the relationship ultimately end?
We weren't compatible.
I was just over it.
I was cheated on.
I can't remember.

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How long did it take you to get over your ex?
I barely needed any time.
About a year
I'm still not over them.
Forever

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Did you ever relapse and go back to them?
No
I thought about it.
Many times
Once

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Have you found or thought about someone new?
I found many people.
Yes, I did.
No
I'm not ready.

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Is/was that person better than your ex?
Yes
Kinda
No
Not really

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Now tell us about you. Do you give or receive more?
I receive more.
Equally, I would say.
I give more.
It depends on who I'm with.

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Which of these words best describes you?
Demanding
Naughty
Humble
Easy-going

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On a scale of one to four, where one is the least and four is the most, how confident are you?
4
3
1
2

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And has anyone ever said that you're too passionate or intense?
All the time
A few times
Never
Once in a while

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